Seen at Dr. Helen’s:
Have you ever met a person who left you wondering, “How could someone be so twisted, so evil?”
The Doc notes that the book she’s discussing suggests that some people are just born evil. And, from my personal experience, that is true. Let me catch you up.
See, I’m a finance guy. I wasn’t always. I had a career before that. In that career, I was (and you’re going to laugh your asses off) a counselor. Yeah, me. The guy who calls people retarded, idiots, and invented the term PSH. More specifically, I counseled a whole special subclass of bastards: sexual offenders. They were a pleasant crowd. I had an epiphany one day when talking to a young lad and the conversation went something like this:
Miscreant: [describes his overwhelming desire to do very bad things to innocent children]
Me: And that urge for you is natural?
Miscreant: Yes.
Me: You know, most people don’t have that particular urge
Miscreant: I think they do.
Me: Really?
Miscreant: Yes. It seems normal to me.
Me: Excuse me a minute.
At that point, I’d had my epiphany. And I realized that the conversation would have ended badly. Because I had a thought at that moment and it was this: the world would be a better place if this guy wasn’t in it. That’s something that I realized could not be cured. I mean, no amount of duct tape would fix this guy. Well, unless the duct tape was used to restrain him prior to tossing him in a river.
Even if you convince this guy that doing very bad things isn’t acceptable, he will still have the overwhelming urge to do it and, honestly, it’s probably only a matter of time.
Needless to say, I soon got out of counseling. Wishing your clients dead isn’t healthy for you or you clients.
During my time there, I learned a few fun things about sexual predators:
They have a very high recidivism rate (approaching 80%).
Sexual predators are either 1) very smart or 2) dumber than a sack of rocks. None of these guys was average. Either way above or way below.
By the time they’re caught, they usually already have a pretty high victim count.
Most were victims themselves
Tended to practice their crimes on animals
And there’s more. In short, they were fucked up. Bad. And no amount of talking to them was going to cure them. And, honestly, talking to them disgusted me.